tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5845195637603537263.post2753035335574323856..comments2024-03-15T13:00:08.144-05:00Comments on 2 Kids, a Mini Van and a Mortgage: Coming to an EndKatehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/05304478032446507014noreply@blogger.comBlogger51125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5845195637603537263.post-16424339736363384402011-06-07T17:25:28.666-05:002011-06-07T17:25:28.666-05:00The picture of Lucy cuddled up with her daddy is b...The picture of Lucy cuddled up with her daddy is beautiful!Lovleehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00582646504506355352noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5845195637603537263.post-40883816769709836112011-04-27T09:17:52.843-05:002011-04-27T09:17:52.843-05:00You are human. I think God gave us that choice to ...You are human. I think God gave us that choice to be angry and upset and confused. But in the end He knows we will see it is much easier with Him. I follow another beautiful blog and the woman, who also is a "strong in her faith" woman..has had similar moments lately. She posted this which I truly believe is what God wants us to know....<br /><br />"Faith is not the absence of asking questions, but the ability to press on without all the answers."<br />Jody Ferlaak "Nitty Gritty" <br /><br />Constantly praying for you guys.<br />AllisonAllison Thomashttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01496316288899837566noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5845195637603537263.post-72954098680606871782011-04-25T20:18:06.599-05:002011-04-25T20:18:06.599-05:00Your candidness is what makes me want to read your...Your candidness is what makes me want to read your blog, only the genuine words are what really matter...this is your safe place to fall, this is your blog, your words, your pain...this is where you should feel safe to share whatever is lying heavy in your heart and soul. No one is judging you.<br />I have to believe that is these moments when your faith shines through.<br />I hope sharing your thoughts gave you some peace.<br />Thinking of you and your family,<br />KellyKellyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16514026244552889428noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5845195637603537263.post-29332374545304233872011-04-24T18:03:32.448-05:002011-04-24T18:03:32.448-05:00The picture of Lucy resting in Eric's lap remi...The picture of Lucy resting in Eric's lap reminds me that in our hurt, weariness and sorrow we can crawl into the lap of our Heavenly Father and find rest and peace. Prayers continue for you, sweet Lucy and all your family as you walk this road.TMhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10603510070860259800noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5845195637603537263.post-61138439803494412782011-04-23T21:50:30.157-05:002011-04-23T21:50:30.157-05:00What you are doing for your daughter is not in vai...What you are doing for your daughter is not in vain. I struggled with the very same thoughts with my son. He was in a different situation, but what he went through for the 6 1/2 months he lived allowed precious time with my son that many moms do not get when they have a very sick premature baby. I battled guilt when he died and thought that I allowed him to suffer in vain. I was on my knees begging for God to take the pain away from all of us. I never expected he would not make it. The comfort that came when left this world with no more tears or pain was undiscriable. I don't know how to explain it. I've never felt God so close. Without him holding me up when I could no longer stand I would not have been able to continue on. God drawls closer in those who are in need. I pray every day your Lucy will overcome this horrible monster and be a testimony to God's grace and healing. Though my son's healing did not come the way I wanted it to, God did heal him. My son reminds me every day of the love that God has for his children. I know that the painful aching love I feel for my children is not even as great as the love that God has for us. My heart aches for him every day, but every thought I have for my son reminds me of God's grace and the blessing he was to me. I am blessed that I got to be his mother. Stay strong. You will get through this.Jennifer G.https://www.blogger.com/profile/13009925568727230520noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5845195637603537263.post-89804735777492114142011-04-23T11:35:22.273-05:002011-04-23T11:35:22.273-05:00Dear Kate, Your honesty and your words PERFECTLY c...Dear Kate, Your honesty and your words PERFECTLY convey what WE ALL feel in our faith -- do NOT apologize or feel that perhaps you should hold back. This is YOUR BLOG and you are entitled to ALL your words, feelings, and posts here.<br />My prayer this Easter weekend is that you and your entire family feel God's loving arms around you and may the peace only HE can provide, envelope you all, especially your precious Lucy. <br /><br />Lisa in FLoridaAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5845195637603537263.post-72322514533341681462011-04-23T06:01:38.255-05:002011-04-23T06:01:38.255-05:00I continue to pray for Lucy and your family! I wil...I continue to pray for Lucy and your family! I will be thinking of your family as my daughter comes into her church this evening her and her husband to be!! God bless you!sunnyflowergirl84https://www.blogger.com/profile/14565341192021729905noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5845195637603537263.post-85049174166483521932011-04-23T00:31:20.140-05:002011-04-23T00:31:20.140-05:00Kate,
Thanks for your honesty! We have all felt t...Kate,<br />Thanks for your honesty! We have all felt that way with different circumstances we face. God knows and understands!!! We watched The Passion tonight and was reminded that Jesus faced every emotion we have or will face on this earth. In the Garden He was fearful. On the Cross he felt pain. At the tomb He felt joy at being at the end of His journey. Kate, God knows!!!!! Without having met your sweet family we pray with you for miraculous healing and God's protection. God will be faithful!Janahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02009330742175297413noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5845195637603537263.post-92111790488023971382011-04-22T22:45:12.724-05:002011-04-22T22:45:12.724-05:00I wrote a comment a few months back. I don't k...I wrote a comment a few months back. I don't know you or your family but I do read this blog every night. Just wanted to let you know that Lucy and your entire family are in my prayers each and every day! I hope you all have a wonderful Easter weekend! Could you post the address to send gifts to again. Also, is there anything in specific that y'all need?Unknownhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03644510782484527837noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5845195637603537263.post-60628718071014648242011-04-22T21:44:09.284-05:002011-04-22T21:44:09.284-05:00praying for you and for a sweet day on Easter...my...praying for you and for a sweet day on Easter...my heart breaks for youTeresa @ Grammy Girlfriendhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05151128140345216126noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5845195637603537263.post-27379144065366796972011-04-22T17:34:30.930-05:002011-04-22T17:34:30.930-05:00Bless you. I can't imagine what it's like...Bless you. I can't imagine what it's like having to go through what you are with Lucy, but I know I would feel the same way.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5845195637603537263.post-60561079593170654922011-04-22T16:31:56.982-05:002011-04-22T16:31:56.982-05:00So sorry you are having a rough time right now. Th...So sorry you are having a rough time right now. That is COMPLETELY understandable with what you are going through and facing in the months ahead. I'd be very surprised if you weren't feeling the way you are. Everyone has times of doubt and fear--even great women of faith! It's our human nature. Praying for you all as you continue on your difficult journey to Lucy's healing.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5845195637603537263.post-89833799534243868312011-04-22T14:41:55.815-05:002011-04-22T14:41:55.815-05:00I hope you ever feel the need to be anything but h...I hope you ever feel the need to be anything but honest. I believe God brought some of us to your blog not only to pray for Lucy, but to pray for you too! God is amazing and he can make all things work together for good - even your fears, doubts and frustration. Hang in there and if I hear a trumpet blast, I'll look for you :)Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5845195637603537263.post-43583215777921485262011-04-22T13:33:18.051-05:002011-04-22T13:33:18.051-05:00Nope... no disappointment. Just love. Just underst...Nope... no disappointment. Just love. Just understanding - you are human just like the rest of us. Your times of strong faith would not be nearly so inspiring and powerful were you not honest about the valleys. Perhaps you don't, but I still see your strong faith beneath the doubt and anger. <br />Praying for Lucy, praying for you, praying for the family. I've never met you but I love you and Lucy. I wish I could give you a huge hug and pray over you in person.<br />xoxo - Alanna (friend of the Fencls)Alannahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04307698401858341342noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5845195637603537263.post-67228656693663189332011-04-22T13:31:13.122-05:002011-04-22T13:31:13.122-05:00I have no advice or wisdom to share. Just wanted ...I have no advice or wisdom to share. Just wanted to thank you for sharing Lucy's story and letting us all pray with you.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5845195637603537263.post-15416114118790154002011-04-22T13:14:03.697-05:002011-04-22T13:14:03.697-05:00Honey, You share every single feeling that goes th...Honey, You share every single feeling that goes through your mind no matter if you "run" all over the place. I promise God understands! Remember Jesus' words in the garden "My father, if it is possible, maye this cup be taken from me". If you don't feel comfortable putting all your feelings on the blog, keep a hand written journa. Whatever it takes for you to get all this off your chest. Take it from someone older who has run the gamut in her faith, YOU ARE A WOMAN OF GREAT FAITH!!!!!! Everyone has doubts, anger, confusion. You are going through a time that requires all of these emotions. God gave them to us for a reason. Know that so many are praying and holding you up when you can't hold yourself up. God bless you with more happy moments amidst this storm.<br />Joan HanksAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5845195637603537263.post-18663288564824795122011-04-22T12:19:16.127-05:002011-04-22T12:19:16.127-05:00Being truly honest - particularly about moments of...Being truly honest - particularly about moments of doubt or dark spots within one's heart or soul - is a courageous act. I send my prayers to you and your family for strength and peace - and faith - as you travel this difficult path. May love carry you forward always.Genevrahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17114980651594228978noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5845195637603537263.post-62318205750188881172011-04-22T12:12:15.753-05:002011-04-22T12:12:15.753-05:00I honestly think that in those moments when we are...I honestly think that in those moments when we are the most angry with God that He meets us where we are. He aleady knows our thoughts, so expressing them out loud can be healing and freeing at the same time. Thank you so much for sharing how you are really feeling. I think that in being transparent you have the greatest impact. I am praying for you and your family daily. May the Lord hold you in his arms and give you comfort.Rachelhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02274586692716466353noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5845195637603537263.post-84455114845133256332011-04-22T12:06:58.307-05:002011-04-22T12:06:58.307-05:00Jesus himself prayed for the cup to pass. He was ...Jesus himself prayed for the cup to pass. He was tempted in all manner as we are. He came into this world human. You cannot expect to do greater than He did. You must continue to know that He will see you through. A friend has shared with me these two thoughts, "Faith is not believing God can, but knowing He will..." and "If Christmas is the promise, Easter is the proof." Thank you for sharing your life with all of us who lift Lucy up again and again and again and will continue to do so. The prayer warriors are vigilant folks. God hears us and will answer. May His love embrace you and keep your heart from hurting, and may He pour out a blessing on Lucy that will call for Hallelujahs all over this world. CynthiaCynthiahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04790794543767479004noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5845195637603537263.post-76048721177281538432011-04-22T11:58:52.224-05:002011-04-22T11:58:52.224-05:00It's interesting when you write a post with su...It's interesting when you write a post with such honesty and transparency that there are so many responses of encouragement, mutual honesty and genuine sympathy and empathy. <br /><br />If you weren't going through all of this and just wrote of God's love and faithfulness (which is very true) but nothing of the trials and anguish, I know, I would be thinking she can't really be honest on this blog.<br /><br />Remember in the Garden of Gethsemane when Jesus' heart was full of sorrow and He fell face first on the ground, and begged His Father to take away "this cup". Our Christ went back 3 times and with anguish asked and begged for the same thing.<br /><br />He understands and He loves you.T.Janzenhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16818836824015358419noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5845195637603537263.post-18738589648515833302011-04-22T11:26:06.570-05:002011-04-22T11:26:06.570-05:00Kate, Thank you for your honesty and sharing exact...Kate, Thank you for your honesty and sharing exactly what you are feeling! Our God is a BIG God and He can take you being upset...yell,scream,pour your heart out to Him...at times I think that is what He wants...He wants our whole heart..the good and the ugly! and then let His loving arms wrap around you and hold you and comfort you! Praying for you all! Donna SelmanDonnahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09170092294307123497noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5845195637603537263.post-31393385813787124182011-04-22T11:21:31.275-05:002011-04-22T11:21:31.275-05:00Kate, you are amazing.
I have felt the same way...Kate, you are amazing. <br /><br />I have felt the same way about my blog before too. I worry that people reading it will think certain things about me. But I have since decided that when I write, I write to my son who was stillborn...to no one else and that makes it better for me. <br /><br />If people say you shouldn't feel a certain way, don't worry about it. You feel what you feel and all you can do is pour out your soul and tell the God of the universe all about it. Your weakness is making you stronger. Your weakness is making the rest of us stronger too. Seeing how vulnerable you are is a blessing because the rest of us can learn that it is ok to beat on God's chest.<br /><br />THANK YOU FOR BEING A BLESSING TO ME!Sarahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16926979919960842520noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5845195637603537263.post-2747798209680349702011-04-22T11:07:25.004-05:002011-04-22T11:07:25.004-05:00I just discovered your blog and read this post. I ...I just discovered your blog and read this post. I am going to continue reading but before I do I wanted to comment. I appreciate your honesty on here and even admire it. Even though I am a firm believer in my faith and try my best to be the best Christian possible on my day to day walk with Christ I admit I have my faults as well......we all do. You should not feel bad for having doubts, worries, and even questioning why? In fact I think it is those moments of insecurity when we let God know we still very much need Him. God is resilient and will continue to love you!! Surrender your worries, doubts, heartache, and despair to him even if it means you cry it out, scream it out, or whisper it.....He will listen! I will be praying for strength for you, your family, and your sweet little girl. God Bless!Heather & Chadhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17470521412335224699noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5845195637603537263.post-16975324126512892692011-04-22T11:00:51.599-05:002011-04-22T11:00:51.599-05:00http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=4l3CEMWCxSkhttp://www.youtube.com/watch?v=4l3CEMWCxSkMommyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08999237715203377877noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5845195637603537263.post-90370925979558729422011-04-22T10:59:06.615-05:002011-04-22T10:59:06.615-05:00I've been following your blog and story for a ...I've been following your blog and story for a while now and just have to say, I'm not disappointed when I read your struggles...I'm encouraged! So many of us feel like we have to keep it all together, but really, when we share our struggles it encourages everyone around us. Thank you for being real, it encourages me as I struggle through my own faith journey!The Felkinshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01101859419417282698noreply@blogger.com